Thank you for the ReachOut! gift card and the opportunity to use it well. I knew immediately what I wanted to do with the card but it took awhile to find just the right occasion.
I’m especially drawn to a Beechwood School single mom who works as a janitor and has three young children. (Two are in the school now and the third will join the kinder-prep. class in the fall.) Mom carries a heavy load and often seems depressed. We’ve arranged things (Christmas gifts, donated clothing, groceries, etc.) that benefit the children, previously, but not something for her directly. It’s a little tricky to not offend her and we have a language barrier which adds to the possibility of misunderstanding. Anyway, I decided Easter was a good opportunity to spread some love and started by buying appropriate gifts for the children. When I delivered them, I handed mom the card and said, “This is just for you.” It really broke my heart when she said, “Why are you so nice to me?” Her tone of voice let me know that she doesn’t have nearly enough people being nice to her. There’s more for me to do there. My next step is to try to establish a sort of “grandparent” role with the children. I know the first grader pretty well as I read to her class each week. (I’m also gathering a few other women to possibly “grandparent” other children in the school. They will start in June as Reading Buddies and see what relationships develop.)
Thanks, again!
– Marilyn Anderson, California Family Foundation